Fox Allan Jager was born sleeping on Thanksgiving Day in 2021.
At a routine prenatal, Rae’s care provider found no heartbeat. She was induced, met Fox, and said goodbye to her little boy all in one day.
After coming home from the hospital empty-handed, Rae and Ben had only pamphlets as loose guidance for their grief. The Jagers didn’t know how to plan a funeral, find placental/cord research for cause of death, and how to parent while grieving.
After two months of searching, Rae found a community of loss moms, insightful articles, and moving literature that helped comfort. She also found invaluable resources that might’ve saved her baby. This website, with the help of Kate, was born from that labor and love.
Finding a community shouldn’t be hard after a loss. It shouldn’t take searching hashtags and Googling “Stillbirth” (only to find condescending and outdated prevention advice). In honor of Fox, this website curates exactly what stillbirth parents might be looking for in those raw early days and even years later.